there is one of the old presidents of us that ı dont remember who tried to be a senator like 9 times and finally he was successful..I pass a lot of time in my life with regret and fear.. I was always afraid of what ı could lose when ı act in a certain way but ı never tought of what ı could gain if everything works out well and thats what one should do.. fails are parts of life but what is important the most is how u react after your failures: - u need to get up as soon as possible and try again.. sometimes in big choices an image of an old lady in the chair by the window of yourself helps. what she would prefer u to do at your age when she talks about her past.. for exemple u should stay at home working in the same job because u need to survive or u should accept an offer from africa where u will economically go down but u will learn a lot? sometimes u need to take risks in order to be happier and in order to find strength in u instead of thinking what u will lose u need to focus on what u can obtain if things work out well..I regreted a lot of things in my life.. but what ı had to do was only learn from my mistakes and continue without regrets while having an inner-peace, now ı see that. and how about all that u could do and u didnt? there there is a huge regret afterwards.. it is easy to say regret what u didnt do but think about it.. think that u have six months left.. what would u do? your list will be full of "ı should have do that too" not "what ı have done"s. so for your next years try to take advices from an old you of 70 years in her/his old chair by her window: -what (s)he would prefer u to choose?"
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